February 2020

Much Sickness The sickness that began toward the end of January has continued throughout the month of February within the body of believers and visitors that attend our services. Roxanne and I thank the Lord for His goodness to us since up until now we have not had to suffer from any of those viral infections that have been circulating in the Stillwater area. Two Children Visit Eric, about twelve years old, and his sister, Abby, in the second grade visited one Sunday morning and were in Sis. Roxanne Parrow’s Sunday School class. They are friends of the Torres children and came at their invitation. Young Eric came again to our service on Sunday night, but without his sister. My Active Preaching Ministry Presently, I am finishing the expository preaching of the Gospel of John chapter 19. I am using AW. Pink and John Gill as commentary on this Gospel. This preaching is done during the Sunday morning service, and I give a set of my notes out to all who attend the service. John 19 deals with the death of our Lord and is a wonderful study of His deity and perfect humanity as He is the God-Man. What an example He is for us to follow, although we won’t reach His perfections in this life! We will be like Him, someday, by His grace. Thursday evenings we are studying the articles of faith of our sponsoring church, Calvary Independent Baptist Church. We are presently looking at the doctrine of the resurrection, article number fourteen, of our Confession of Faith. The Lord is blessing these studies with the...

December 2019

Dear Pastor and Brethren: A Brief Summary of the Blessings of 2019 With the prospects of a new year before us, I think it would be profitable to see a summary of the Lord’s blessings during the old year. During 2019 the Lord sent us thirty first-time visitors to our services. We have tried to follow up on them with a visit as much as they have permitted us to do so. What I mean is that the visitors do not want to give us their full names nor their addresses so that we can visit with them. So we are as friendly as possible and talk to them after the services, inviting them to return, if they don’t run out just as soon as the preaching is over. Our services are not religious entertainment services but real services of true worship and Bible study. Perhaps that is the reason why none have stayed with us. However, they all have heard the Gospel of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and have been invited to repent of their sin and come to the Savior. Some of Our Activities During the Year We enjoyed attending a hymn sing in January, a Bible Conference in April, and a fellowship lunch in November. Bro. Al had moved to Tulsa but returned to live in Stillwater in August. Bro. Gaches had an operation on his knee and has recovered. Sis. Gaches has had the shingles, but is slowly recuperating. Sis. Maginnis has been sick now for over six weeks. LaShonda Dale is doing well with her new job and has been coming more...

November 2019

Dear Pastor and Brethren: A Month of Praise and Thanksgiving As last month we reported as being a somewhat difficult month, this month we have some answers to prayer to report. LaShonda Dale reported that the Lord has answered prayer for her concerning a new job. She was working nights for a Senior Living Community and is now going to work for DHS in the area of Adult Protective Services. She and her family are rejoicing in this new job and are thanking the Lord for providing it for them. Working at night has ended and she now has weekends off, better income, and a better level of work. Another New Visitor The Lord sent us another new visitor, Miss Tori Marshall, a post graduate student from Tennessee, working on her PHD in agriculture. She came only once but told us she was going to be out of town during the Thanksgiving holiday. We hope that she will return to visit with us agam. Our Spanish Outreach Contact with Spanish speaking people has once again slumped although we did have the opportunity to be in contact with seven different Mexican families and individuals. We know that the Roman Catholic Church is permitting a group of young married couples to have their own Bible study in which they take turns giving their own opinions about what certain portions of the Bible mean to them. It is a “blind leading the blind” situation. Would to God they would come to our services and let me teach them; but such is not the case. The Word of God is not for “private...

October 2019

A Difficult Month The month of October was a difficult time for several of our regular attendees to the services. Sis. Elaine Maginnis has become very weak with what seems to be kidney problems and has not attended for several weeks. Bro. Ruben Torres’ wife obtained a divorce from him without him knowing anything about it. He was really shocked and hit hard by the sad news as were his three children who live with him. His wife received full custody of the children, but they continue to live with him. LaShonda has not yet found a new job although she graduated in the spring with a degree from one of the local universities. Joe Ball and Desirae work so much that we only see them about once a month. Please remember these folks in prayer before the Lord for their respective needs. One New Visitor! The Lord did bless us with the visit of one little girl named Olivia Hulet. She is a friend ofKholie Torres and in the second grade. Roxanne had three children in her Sunday School class that Sunday. Hopefully, her parents will let her come again. Our Spanish Outreach Roxanne and I had the opportunity to work with eleven different Spanish people, some with family members. Roxanne has been asked to teach two grade school Mexican-American little girls how to read in English so that they can keep up with their classmates at school. The parents only speak Spanish at home so that the little girls only get to speak English while they are at school. As a result, they don’t know a lot...

September 2019

Dear Pastor and Brethren: Six New Visitors! The Cody and Jeanette Sworb family with baby and her daughter, Erica, visited with us one Sunday, and two OSU students, Ashton Mainord and Kaleb Vance visited with us on another Sunday. We have not had very many OSU (Oklahoma State University) students visit with us so they were a pleasant surprise. They had visited the big Southern Baptist churches here in the area but didn’t feel comfortable in them because of their size. They came from a small Southern Baptist church in Norman, Ok., and said that they were looking for a small church so that they could get to know the people. We were as friendly with them as we could be, but they haven’t been back, nor has the Sworb family. All of them heard the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ in my messages, I assure you! LaShonda and her two sons returned one Sunday, and we were happy to see them in our service. She is looking for a better job now that she has her new bachelors’ degree. Hispanic Outreach Roxanne and I had the opportunity to deal with 26 Latinos and one American girl in our attempt to reach other people with the gospel. Each one of these people have their own story to tell. All but the American girl were involved one way or another in an ICE raid on two local restaurants here in the city of Stillwater. All of them were here working quietly, but illegally, in those restaurants and immigration agents showed up one morning and arrested them all and took...

August 2019

Three New Visitors! In August, we had three new visitors brought by Joe Ball to our Sunday morning service. They were Joe’s father and mother and grandfather. Joe said that it was the first time he had ever seen his parents in a regular church service outside of a funeral service in his entire lifetime. Please remember David and Betty Ball and the grandfather, Dee Ball, in your prayers. I did preach the gospel to them, and we would like to see this family come to know the Lord. So far they have not returned, but we are praying for them. Hispanic Outreach Our Hispanic outreach increased substantially this month. We have had an influence on twenty Latino people, four of which are completely new to us. Two of the individuals are Latin young women both of whom will be deported for breaking their visa limitations. The rest of the twenty are young men, one of which is a young man with his wife and daughters, all here illegally and all needing the Lord. Rather than list all of their names, which would be difficult reading for those of you who don’t know the Spanish language, just remember this outreach activity on our part, that the Lord might bless it for his honor and glory. I received a call from Mexico, from a young Mexican man, Omar Joaquin Bernabe, who had been here in our county jail a few years ago where I had ministered to him. He called me asking for spiritual advice for his family. He and his wife, Nadia, attend a Bible Baptist Church in Mexico....

July Report

Two New Visitors. July has been a very hot month with real temperatures soaring up to as high as I():’) degrees in the afternoons. The humidity is also very high and that makes the heat index even higher. Thank the Lord for air conditioning which makes it possible for a more comfortable living condition. Mr. Joe Ball, Desirae and family returned from their vacation in Tennessee and brought two new visitors with them to our Sunday morning service, July 14th, giving us 14 in attendance that day. They were Desirae’s daughter, Destiny, and Desirae’s mother, Linda. Linda returned with the family on the 21st of the month and now attends whenever the family attends. Our attendance fluctuates between about nine faithful people and visitors who come irregularly that raise the attendance number. We are praying that the Lord might bless the expository preaching of His glorious Word. We do not believe in resorting to entertainment of any kind to get people into our services, but do seek the lost through our outreach program, prayer, and expository preaching. Our Weekly Bulletin We now have a weekly bulletin.  Roxanne creates an attractive new front cover every week for the bulletin and we use it for listing prayer requests, pithy statements, our schedule of service, and our Sunday morning order of service.  It is a delight to use this medium to serve the Lord. By His grace and in loving gratitude, Tim and Roxanne Parrow....

June 2019

Dear Pastor and Brethren: Return Visitors On the thirteenth of June, our Thursday service, we had Angie visit with us again and on Sunday the twenty-third, LaShonda came without her two boys. We had thirteen in our service that Sunday morning, with Al Christian attending as well as Joe Ball and Desirae. I preached on Jn.17:17 where our Lord prays, “Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth.” Such a prayer makes for good preaching, and therefore I preached on the doctrine of sanctification, defining it and looking at it in the Holy Scriptures. The next Sunday only the faithful nine of us were in attendance, but we rejoice to preach to whomever the Lord brings our way. Spanish Outreach Our attempt to reach the Latino community has dwindled, and although we have dealt with some Latinos, we have not been able to give out any literature except to one young man, Miguel Angel. With all of the illegal activity happening on the border, one would think that we would have many more Latinos in our area. Such is not the case, however, yet. Perhaps they will come to our area and the Lord will give us more opportunities to reach them in the future. Other Activities We thank the Lord that we were able to buy about eight tons of gravel to fix our washed out driveway. We could have used more but the cost of the gravel has gone up considerably because of the need to fix so many roads and bridges that were washed out from the great amount of rain we had in May....

May, 2019

  Dear Pastor and Brethren: Unusual Weather Month The beautiful spring weather that blessed us in April turned into severe weather that swamped us in May. In the last three weeks of May we had over thirty inches of rain as measured in my rain gauge in our front yard. Flooding was the result of that amount of rain and our road was flooded in both the ingress and egress directions to our house. Our gravel driveway is heavily washed out, and I will need about fifteen tons of gravel to replace what was washed out. The worst part of the gravel road we use was to the south with about six feet of water covering the road. The north part was not so deep and dried up much sooner so we were able to get out and go to our services and do our work by going about six miles out of our normal way to get to Stillwater and back home. The heavy volume of water has washed out bridges and culverts in many areas making it difficult to travel. Many others here in Oklahoma were not so blessed but suffered damages from flooding, tornados, and hail. The Lord was good and gracious to all of us associated with the mission work for which we are thankful. The building in which we assemble did leak a little bit but the damage is repairable with caulking and paint. It seems that not so long ago I was reporting about the drought we were in here in Oklahoma. Now the Lord has made up for all of that lack...

March 2019

Dear Pastor and Brethren: A Month of Improvements Although February was a slow month with low attendance, March is showing improvement in that area. We are having an early spring here in Stillwater, and I think that may be one of the encouragements the Lord is providing to motivate people to come to our services. On the 3rd of March we had twelve people, including two new children, attend our service. The same happened on the tenth with twelve attending. The numbers dropped to five on the 17th but then went back up on the 24th to ten and on the 31st of March to eleven. So we praise the Lord for the nice weather and His drawing of the people to come hear His Word. Subject Matter for Preaching On Sunday mornings I am preaching on John 17, the Lord’s prayer to His Father before departing with the Eleven to pray in the garden of Gethsemane before His betrayal and arrest It is the prayer of the highest beauty and deepest doctrine in the entire book of Holy Scripture. His prayer certainly needs to be studied in view of the upcoming celebration of Resurrection Sunday (Easter). Properly understanding His prayer would truly give us a proper understanding of His death, burial, resurrection, and ascension. On Thursday evenings I am preaching on Article Ten of our Articles of Faith, The Blood Atonement. This subject certainly complements the theme of the Lord’s prayer so that those who attend will have received a good understanding of the redemptive work of our Lord when we are finished with the study. Our Outreach...

February 2019

February seems to have been a difficult month for us here at the mission in Stillwater. Bro. Dick Gaches hurt his knee severely and has not been able to take an active part in our services for about a month now. He went to the surgery center for surgery on his leg, and the monitors found an irregular heartbeat, so they sent him home with instructions to go to a cardiologist. The cardiologist has found nothing wrong with Bro. Gaches’ heart, but they have one more test to run before he can schedule surgery on his knee. Meanwhile he is hobbling around when he has to do some walking but has curtailed his movement to doing just what is absolutely necessary. Please remember him and Sis. Connie, his wife, in your prayers. Others continue to come sporadically. Truman and Needra Stiner come when they are in Stillwater for purposes other than to serve the Lord, but at least they attend when they are in the Stillwater area. LaShonda Dale and her two boys came once this month but have not returned. She attends a university in Langston, Ok., during the day and works all night on top of caring for her two teenage sons. She is often troubled with migraine headaches. Please remember her in prayer. Joe Ball and Desirae have come two Sundays this month. Desirae’s son, Deacon, comes when he is not visiting with his father. Deacon is in the sixth grade. Additionally, we have lost a man who was visiting with us, but we are happy to know that he is attending services elsewhere. We are...

January 2019

Dear Pastor and Brethren: Off to a Good Start! The Lord has given us a good start for the new year with four first-time visitors and six returning visitors. Mr. and Mrs. Joe and Desirae Ball came twice this month and her stepson Deacon came with them once. LaShonda Dale, a repeat visitor, brought her two sons, Dona’te and Deonta, and her niece Tyasia, who is a first-time visitor. Additionally, the three children of Bro. Ruben Torres: Brayden, Gaven, and Khloie, came on a Thursday evening for a Bible study class. We thank the Lord for these visitors and hope that they will return as the Lord deals with their hearts. Hispanic Outreach We had an unusual opportunity to witness to a Colombian couple. Isneriban Murillo Buitrago was needing some Spanish documents translated into English for his citizenship test. We were happy to translate those documents for him and also to give him and his wife a copy of Highest Questions – Ultimas Preguntas, to read together. They were very friendly, and the following Monday we received a phone call from him telling us that he had passed his citizenship test. Additionally, we have met two other Mexican men, but have not been able to even give them a gospel tract because of their being incarcerated and closely guarded. Hymn Singing! On January 26, Saturday, several of us from the mission work went down to Bethel Baptist Church in Choctaw, Ok., to participate in their annual time of four hours of singing hymns. It starts at 10 a.m. and continues until 12:00, breaking for lunch until 1:00 and then...

December 2018

Dear Pastor and Brethren: End of Year Review I like to do a review of each year’s work and blessings at the end of each year and beginning of each new year to see what has been accomplished and to ask the Lord’s blessings for future spiritual and numerical growth. With that in mind, please note the following facts of our past blessings, answers to our prayers up to this point. During the 2018 year the Lord blessed us with 46 visitors, both first time and return visitors. Of the 46 people who visited, one has remained and faithfully comes to our services. We presently number regularly from eight to eleven people attending on Sunday mornings and six attending our Thursday evening Bible studies. In 2018, the Lord enabled us to add an outreach program of visitation twice monthly to our regular schedule of services. In my own personal witnessing, I have contacted at least 49 Latinos with gospel tracts and a personal word about their need of a saving relationship with God through the Lord Jesus Christ. Four of them have come to our services twice but have not returned. In 2018, we were blessed with the opportunity to host a Fifth Saturday Fellowship meeting in which some 27 people attended for both spiritual and physical refreshment. We had 23 attendees on Resurrection Day (Easter), when relatives and friends of members came to visit our service. We now have a weekly bulletin published and a website (gracebaptiststillwater.com) that is being updated from time to time with our articles of faith. Both of these publications are made by brethren...

November 2018

Dear Pastor and Brethren: Thanksgiving Praise! Our hearts are full of the joy of the Lord as we contemplate all of His blessings to us. They are ours daily as we read His Word and meditate there upon. If we did not have the Word of God, we would know absolutely nothing about spiritual things. We would not know that we are sinners. We would be ignorant of the wrath of God. We would not know of coming judgment. We would not know that there is a Savior, and we would not know anything of the love of God at all. I believe that there exists in our world, people who are in such ignorance. They are all around us. Although there is much religion, most of it is false. The god they profess to worship is a false god, and the religion they follow is religious philosophy, vain in substance. I thank and praise the God of gods and the Lord of lords for revealing Himself to me through the message of His Holy Word and the ministry of the Holy Spirit of God who drew me unto the Lord Jesus Christ. These spiritual blessings and many more are the foundation of all other temporal blessings. Without them, life would be all in vain, shallow, and presumptuous, the life that the majority of the human race is now living. Ministry Praises! Although we have had some sickness among those that come to our services, we have the sweet Spirit of the Lord in our midst in all of our services, and I want to list a few of...

October 2018

Dear Pastor and Brethren: Return Visitors This Month! Mrs. Lashonda Dale and her boys, Dona’te and Deonta continue to come to our services as well as Brayden and Gaven Torres and Jacob Mason. We have lost Billie Barzee and Earl Oswalt, and so we now have eight faithful people who attend our services regularly. Please remember us in your prayers because it is difficult to lose one regular, faithful person especially when that person has been so carefully dealt with in spiritual matters and godly fellowship. We have not had any new visitors this month, but we are actively involved in our outreach program for the purpose of reaching others with the gospel. Other Activities In addition to our regular services, several of us from the mission work were able to attend the Bible Conference hosted by Bethel Baptist Church, Choctaw, Ok., Bro. Royce Smith Pastor. The preaching was good and the food and fellowship were pleasant. Again, all was a blessing to those of us who went to the conference. Prayer Requests Please pray for Bro. Phillip McGee’s wife who is unregenerate and has been antagonistic toward the things of the Lord. She has begun to soften somewhat and is now sitting down with Bro. Phillip to have a devotional with him on a regular basis. Pray that the Lord might continue to soften her heart and draw her to Him by His grace, using Bro. Phillip in the process. Her name is Korri, and she needs the Lord to save her. Another request is for the salvation of Bro. Torres’ wife, Jaime. She made a profession of...